Wednesday, April 18, 2012

4 years ago...

Four years ago was a memorable day.  I was literally shaken awake by an earthquake here in central Indiana.  At the time, that was the most remarkable thing about April 18, 2008.  In fact, it took me a few months to figure out that for our family, the earthquake was of little interest compared to the other event that happened the same day that rocked our world a LOT more than any old earthquake!

We had no idea that a thousand miles away in Houston, Texas, the sweet baby who would become our son was making his appearance in the world.  We had no idea that the next day I would accidentally stumble upon the information from the agency his birthmom would use to make an adoption plan for him.  We had no idea that 4 days after that I would be waiting as patiently as possible to meet our son in the NICU of a Houston hospital.

Benicio Jose, your arrival literally rocked our world.  You are our miracle, our dream come true, our hearts' desire, the answer to prayer, and our beloved son. Your smiles have healed our hearts in ways nothing else ever could have. We are so blessed to have you in our family.  Happy 4th Birthday, my beautiful miracle son.  I love you more than words could ever say.

Benicio Jose  April 2008

 Super Ben  April 2012
 
What a difference 4 years have made!  I wouldn't change a thing except maybe to slow down time so I could appreciate your hugs, kisses, snuggles, and even sassyness just a bit longer!

Friday, April 13, 2012

Have I mentioned that I love these sweet faces?



These boys keep me busy non-stop and some days I think I might pull my hair out, but one look at these sweet faces melts my heart and makes the chaos worth it.  Love my boys!

Saturday, December 3, 2011

This is why I don't have time to blog....


These boys are soooo much fun!  They keep me on my toes and don't give me much chance to sit and relax.  I wouldn't have it any other way :-)

Saturday, September 24, 2011

Soccer Boy

This year Ben talked me into being his soccer coach.  I have never played soccer in my life.  My only qualifications to be a coach is that I've been being a "soccer aunt" for the past 6 years since my nephews moved in with us, so I know the basics.  It's enough to coach 3 and 4 year olds at least :-) 

I have to say that I have, surprisingly, really been enjoying coaching.  Our team decided to name themselves the Coconuts.  It's a fitting name since I think they are all a little nuts (and I must be a little nuts to be coaching!!).  We don't technically keep score in the preschool division, but we have managed to score some goals.  Ben got his first one today and he was excited (almost as much as Mommy was!).  Here are a few pics from the past few weeks of soccer.

Ben and Mommy before the game

This is his game face.  He is all business on the field unless he just scored.

This is what Nico does while we're playing.  Luckily he has both grandmas and one grandpa to spoil him rotten with snacks, drinks, and taking him to the playground during games! 

Throw in!

I LOVE the look of determination on his face while taking this goal kick!

Tuesday, September 6, 2011

If you love American Girl dolls...

Then you might want to check out this giveaway:
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The proceeds all go to help a family bring their precious child home, so you could win a cool prize and help them and their child "win" an even cooler prize of being a family forever!

Friday, August 26, 2011

Summer Fun!

We have had a busy summer, and I have been a bad blogger!  I took tons of pictures, but I haven't edited even one and haven't posted many either.  So, here's a big catch-up post all about our summer!

In June, we spent a week in Houston.  While there, we got to spend some time with Nico's birthmom.  Will had to work during the day, so the boys and I did most of the "touristy" stuff without him.  He did get to join us on Sunday, so you'll see a few pics of him too.


Will and the boys at the Downtown Aquarium in Houston. 

Ben LOVED the giant ferris wheel.  Will was not as thrilled :-)

Nico was very excited!  (Notice how Will is holding on?? lol)

Ben and I touching the sting rays

Not sure why there are white tigers at the Aquarium, but they were pretty cool.  Ben was convinced he needed to "save" Daddy from this one!

The boys at the Houston Children's Museum.  It was a nice museum, but really was geared to kids older than mine.  And the baby area that Nico would have loved was off limits to Ben because he was 38 months old and the cut off was 35.

Ben at the Houston zoo.  This tree was begging him to climb it, but the sign said no!

These boys are like fish and thoroughly enjoyed the hotel swimming pool many times

Ben jumping in!

Mr. Chill "napping" in his float.  He is a little water bug!

Ben checking out a skunk pelt at the Museum of Natural Science

Nico was very excited about touching the skunk, armadillo, and turtle.

Ben took the butterfly identification card very seriously in the butterfly center.  He was determined to find every single kind of butterfly.

Nico was more impressed with the water than the butterflies :-)

Ben the astronaut at Space Center Houston

The boys in the shuttle mock-up.  They LOVED this place.

Nico at the end of a busy day at Space Center Houston.  He was such a good sport about all of the museum stuff! 

Nico loved the sand, but was not so sure about the water at Galveston beach.

Ben loved the sand and the water.  He is a beach baby!

Ben taking in his first Astros game.  Will and I used to go all the time when we lived in Houston.  It was nice to be "home" again.

Nico was more interested in people watching than baseball watching!  The man holding his is one of Will's co-workers.  Nico really liked him.  Of course Nico likes most people!
Besides the fun in Houston, we had lots of fun at home too!  Here are a few pics of some of our fun.
This is Ben's "battle scars" from a game of backyard catch with our neighbors.  He was so busy watching the ball that he tripped and fell face first onto the fire pit grate.  Thank goodness the grate was cool!

Ben with his swim teacher.  His teacher says Ben is a natural back stroker because he would much rather be on his back than on his belly.  Crazy boy!

Nico at swim lessons!

Ben with a meerkat at the zoo.  We went to the zoo lots of times this summer!

Nico was worn out by our zoo trip too!  He is sporting brother's sunglasses and was quite proud of that right up until the moment that he threw them in the duck pond!  Oops!  Ben was pretty upset  but recovered quickly when Daddy suggested maybe one of the ducks or flamingos would wear them.

Nico made a new friend at Build a Bear.  He named it "me-me", which is also what he says when he wants me to pick him up!

Ben made a smurf, which he named "Ben Smurf"! lol
In July, the boys and I went to Chicago for the weekend with my mom and sister.  We went to Navy Pier and took a sail out on Lake Michigan.  We also ate at Bubba Gump's.  While there, Ben scored a free pass for all of us to the Chicago Children's Museum.  I am always amazed at the way people flock to my boys and how much "stuff" they have been given!  So we spent a few hours at the Chicago Children's Museum.  The boys loved it, but I was bad and didn't take any pictures.  I also didn't get any pictures on the sailboat.  Bad momma! On our way home from Chicago, we stopped at Fair Oaks Dairy Farm.  I did get a bunch of pictures there.  Ben LOVED this place and Nico thought it was fun too.

Ben on the human-powered "cow"rasel.  That thing was heavy to push!

Nico on the "cow"rasel with Grandma making sure he didn't jump off.

This was Ben's favorite part-the "dairy-go-round" where the cows get milked.  He was enthralled with watching this process.  He also stumped the tour guide when he asked her WHY the cows make milk.  She wasn't sure how to explain that to a 3 year old!
Back home again in Indiana....we took a few trips to the Children's Museum here too.  Most of these pics are from a play date with our friends.  We can't get enough of the Indy Children's Museum.  Seeing the ones in Houston and Chicago make us really appreciate how great ours here is!
Nico the paleontologist!

Ben takes his dino digging very, very seriously

Nico on the playground at one of at least 6 parks we have checked out this summer.

Ben playing at Pioneer Park

Back at the Indy zoo, Ben is waiting to feed the giraffes.

We got to see the new baby elephant.  She is so tiny compared to the other elephants!  And boy is she a cutie!
Of course summer would not be complete without a trip (or two) to the State Fair.  The boys had so much fun on the first trip that we went back the next day!
Ben at the livestock nursery

Checking out a cow in Pioneer Village

Nico wanted to kiss every animal he saw-luckily this one was a statue!

More love for the animals!

My little farmers LOVED the Little Hands on the Farm

Ben planting a seed in the Little Hands exhibit

Nico couldn't pedal the tractor, but he suckered the worker into pushing him around anyway :-)

Feeding the goats was a big hit-until one of them bit Nico's shirt when he ran out of food.  Nico was NOT thrilled about that at all.  He kept telling everyone we saw, "Goat bite" and holding out his shirt.  Soooo funny!

Petting these little cattle was a big hit too.

Ben was obsessed with this water feature and wanted to know if he could climb into the center of it.  Silly boy!


We have had such a great summer.  I really hate to see it end, but we're also looking forward to a fun-filled fall too!

March 2009